Questions An Opinions About Sexual Practices, Please Respond If You Have A Minute
I'm very curious about some things I hope the men and women on this site will answer and comment on. I would appreciate your input very much.
Now, I'm not a prude an I've had all these things I'm asking about done to me during sex but, I'm just wondering why some people do them and how does it feel to them when they do?
The first thing is fucking an ass. What the fascination with it? What does it feel like to a man? I know how it felt to me but, why do men like it so much? Plus, why do some men want to ram it in as opposed to slowly inserting it? What do women feel when it's in their ass? How many women have a climax when its happening?
Do some women like it rammed in hard?
The next thing is men cramming their fingers down my throat. I really was confused with this one. I understand a woman sucking on a mans finger might turn him on but, trying to gag me with two and four fingers, I didn't get it. Curious what it does for the men and maybe the women.
One other thing is spitting in a woman's mouth. This I don't t get at all. I wanted to slap him when he did it to me but, I've seen many men do it. What's the purpose of it. What does it do to for you sexually?
Another thing is choking. What dies this do for you sexually? I've had it done to me an all I got from it was, fear I was gonna pass out and thoughts of he's gonna choke me so long I'll die. There wasn't any sexual gratification for me an I never ask him.
Does anyone else have any questions they wonder about? I'd love to hear other peoples curious thoughts.
If you respond to this, I thank you very much for your opinion and time.
Okay, I'll add that I wonder how many men like to show off their partner, wife, girlfriend or whoever by having her wear very revealing clothing when out in public? My husband likes for me to wear tops that expose my titties an he wants me to wear crotchless pantyhose, crotchless panties or sometimes no panties. What's your thoughts?
Well, I just learned that you must write a story of at least 2000 characters or it will not be submitted. This proves you learn something everyday. Or at least you should learn something everyday.
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Comments (28)
That Guy: It has been said that "Everything is about sex, except sex. Sex is about power" - Oscar Wilde (supposedly) weather he said it or not. I agree with it. Im no shrink, but i have a PhD in "The unveleivabke shit people do" and graduated from Shit Happens University (otherwise known as the Army) why put their hands around your neck? To dominate you. Why do painal on a woman? To attack her social status. (Take her down a peg) Why do regular anal? Confirmation that she belongs to you (taboo busting) Spitting ? See item 2 and 3. Those men seek a connection via alternative paths (different motivations) pay attention to how they do things to learn more about how they want to connect to you. Accept that connection or Reject iconnection but you learn more about more people in the general population from just a few interactions in bed
Reply↴ • uid:3zm5puyi8riCurious Woman: Thank you, That Guy. I tend to agree with you.
• uid:1a912bhjJohn Robert Maybury: I am not a expert on sex, by any means, but I will give you, my thoughts. I see nothing good in hurting a woman, for any reasons. I do think I have at times been guilty in being carried away, and thrusting a bit too hard, into her, but it was only in passion, and not to hurt. I have only read about that stupid thing about spiting into a woman's mouth, and that is another thing I would never do. I consider that a woman giving me, access to her body, is a real gift, and would never hurt her in any way. I hope I have helped you in some little way and if you ever want to talk to me again, my address is mayburyjohn3@gmail
Reply↴ • uid:1qkwnvqd99Lacy: I agree about the spitting in a woman's mouth. How disgusting can someone be? I'd smack the crap out of a man if he spit in my mouth. As far as the anal thing. If I were a man, I'd be concerned about some E.coli entering the urethra on my dick and getting an infection, possibly affecting my bladder or kidneys. They can be quite serious infections. Choking? Some women have died doing this. How would a man feel if he killed the woman. Some have died of other issues other than the actual choking. It could cause arrhythmias with the heart which could lead to death. Now you're going to jail. Some things just aren't worth the risks.
• uid:1a912bhjBig Daddy: Anal is a slow process and I don't force I go nice and slow so she can feel the whole nine yards and just let it sit there while she's relaxed giving her a little massage too take it. For me is just a sexy throbbing Factor knowing a woman has a great ass and just have to have my cock in it. No fascination here about sticking fingers down a woman's throat I religious shove my cock down her throat. So many different variables and if your husband wants you to wear certain elephants then do it be that dirty little slut for your husband
Reply↴ • uid:1eic9o4noovsKlittykat: Nothing better than a gyy cumming in my tight ass
Reply↴ • uid:2xm1b7wmm3Naughty Daddy: Sounds like naughty fun sugarplum
• uid:w9ph0p83sddBad Uncle Leo: All of it has to do with establishing a power dynamic with you as his inferior. Message me if you'd like to talk about it
Reply↴ • uid:bjpf15oxi9Curious Woman: After I added characters to make 2000, this story was finally submitted. But, after that, I saw stories that didn't have 2000. I have no idea why I received a notice pop up that said, "You don't have enough characters. You need 2000 to submit your story. What I'm saying is you don't have to write 2000 characters to be accepted like I had made the comment in my story above. I don't know why it happened to me but, I'm sorry if I mislead anyone. Write like the wind.
Reply↴ • uid:1a912bhjNeed cock: I've never had anal but would love to know if is normal and did you enjoy it [email protected]
• uid:bczs4d95lbgCurious Woman: I had it done both ways, once it was forced on me an he was really rough with me just ramming it in fast and hard. It was so painful. Hated it. Another time by my husband who took his time and was gentle. I was able to tolerate and enjoy it some. But, it's not really my thing. I only did it for my husband.
• uid:1a912bhjKinky weiner: For me. Anal just feels different. There’s different sensations and there’s still the bit of taboo naughtiness of it. As for the choking and spitting thing I don’t get that at all. If I tried that with my wife she would have kicked my ass
Reply↴ • uid:v8kobr1q283Jack Nabor: Me, ass fucking a woman, no. Me getting ass fucked by a hot sexy T girl, yes. Fingering, spitting, choking, no. It's a power thing which passionate men don't need to do. Showing off my girl, yes. My girl is younger than me, hot as hell, she likes to show off and like to show her off. We even go to amateur night at the strip club. I love it and I love watching her fuck guys and gals. That's just me.
Reply↴ • uid:1ds0ucu26ppoDmac: I love to give anal but fist prepare the girl especially if it’s her first time. I also love free use and I always want my girl to be going out with no bra and most of the time no panties
Reply↴ • uid:17bildzriAznColonizer: There is a difference between the women who want these things, and when you want to do these things to a woman. It's not all for sure, but I've found the more a woman loves me the more she has wanted these things. I find more interest in anal coming from the women wanting it of me more than me wanting to do it to them. Honestly it is dirty, and if I want it I am mostly likely to want it from a. Cheap slut of a woman whom I will then push my cock into her mouth after as I don't want to touch it until after it is cleaned.
Reply↴ • uid:r29mg2qmHolly: If my husband spat at me I would go fucking nuts. If he tried to strangle me he would be in a cell. There is no need for any of that kind of extremity other than to satisfy dystopian cravings usually generated through porn sites. As for anal. I mean it isn't a favorite activity, and you really, really do need a patient man who can come down to your level and listen to what you say to guide him. Sadly once again many men cannot do that. They think we are porn actresses and are so far off the mark. As for ramming it up, any woman would jump off the bed at warp speed if they did that. However, if done right, anal sex can be very erotic, very sensual, and very stimulating.
Reply↴ • uid:1epdj7p8a2yc1Ramryder: Even though I had been sexually active for a number of years before meeting my 1st wife, I had never really considered anal. It was she who introduced mt to that. Her way of doing that was to use dildos of varying sizes on my, Then I was invited to enter her. I fully agree with you that the porn initiated crap of pounding (that goes for front entry also) is dumb. Spitting is the same ... porn stupidity. Choking, my 230 something female friend likes that, is something different BUT can be dangerous, She swears that it enhances her orgasm. Personally I do not do it but I have watched her with other men and she literally explodes with her orgasm. I am not always a gentle lover and often use my female partners to satisfy my perverse sexual needs. However, that is done with their understanding and consent.
• uid:1eu9li38xppkHolly: Anal sex can sometimes be suggested by the female in the heat of the moment. However reality usually sets in pretty quickly if the guy has no idea other than what he has viewed on a porn site. It is dirty, of course it's dirty, and that is another reason most women really don't like it. My husband is rough with me at times. But I know it is just animalistic male urges and not a real attempt to hurt or humiliate me. I'm not going to seek a divorce if he calls me a dirty bitch when he is heading towards his climax. But these lines are becoming very blurred with some men simply because they do not know how to sexually interact with a woman other than what they have learned from a porn video.
• uid:1epdj7p8a2ycHolly: I often think. If you are going to write stories on here and you are a woman, write it from a woman's perspective. If you are a man, write it as a man. Because the saying "Men are from Mars and women from Venus" is absolutely true. We just cannot get fully into the heads and sexual feelings of the opposite sex.
• uid:1epdj7p8a2ycThis guy: All the things you mention are male domination habits. It seems many guys like to know you will submit sexually to them because you are their property to do with as they please or their is a lack of respect for boundaries. If you're ok with that then no shame in the game. If not let them know and if they don't like it just move until you find the right partner.
Reply↴ • uid:1ehle0kv21RamRyder: I was recently out with a few of my male friends and the discussion turned to MGTOW. Not surprised that the consensus was for mates with a low body count. I kept mu mouth shut and listened (and learned). Currently I am single and dating a couple women, 1 in her early 20's, the other in her mid-60's. Sexually they are very interesting. The older woman (64) loves extreme kink. Anal, toys, cum play, BDSM, piss. She is one of the few who, with some prep, can enjoy my thick cock to the point of orgasm. That is her private side ... in public she is demure. The younger (22) meets my other needs. Perhaps a little less kinky, but watching her with 2 or 3 other guys is wild! There is nothing better than having her coated in cum! In case you wonder, I am 70 and I have her dress in tight clothes, no bra to show off her pierced nipples under a sheer top and that camel toe! Few weekends ago we were at a club, she dressed to entertain (!). One guy kept hitting on her and I told him I was her dad but he could fuck her for 50. I watched him take her in the back alley, hand around her throat, splitting her open with his hard cock (not massive). He didn't last long enough to suit me but after he emptied in her and was zipping up, I showed him how it was done. Rubbing his cum across her ass, I slowly pushed into her hole. He stood there, mouth open as she sputtered in discomfort. I did not drive home, just pushed my head in past the glans, then out and in. Couple minutes of that and she came hard. That is my anti-MGTOW fun. As for anal, it takes a special woman to enjoy and I have not know many. Pounding them is porn movie crap. Done right .... WOW for her and me!
Reply↴ • uid:1eu9li38xppkBob in Tulsa.: I would like for my wife to look nice and sexy out in public, but quite honestly she’s let herself go. You have to communicate what you want with your partner. If he wants more and you’re not comfortable, then it’s time to maybe look for another partner. It’s not like there’s a shortage of men or women here in America and I guarantee you you’ll find, if you look, and if you’re patient, and if you ask the right questions, the perfect match. My problem was I wasn’t patient enough. And sometimes, there are other factors that outweigh the sex so you have to factor those things and also. A faithful woman who is working a job making 150,000 a year… Who is beautiful and intelligent… But like likes vanilla sex I’m OK with that But a fat ugly sit on your ass at home woman who is faithful, but doesn’t want to try any other flavor in bed… Well, maybe it’s time to move on
Reply↴ • uid:7pqjf5p2hmAznColonizer: As a guy I am honestly not that into ass fucking. It is dirty. I find more desire from women than form myself to do it. I have no desire to do it to a woman I care for. I am interested in it for a girl I do not care about. One who I would do it only as a form of domination, and because I don't want my cock dirty I would likely want to fuck her mouth after. The same goes for many of these things. I do them more because she wants it. I do enjoy sexually dominating her, but more for her enjoyment. It is an interesting mix between the girls I want to dominate hard vs the girl who want me to dominate them hard. It's different doing it to her her enjoyment rather than doing it because of genuine lack of caring about a slutty girl.
Reply↴ • uid:r29mg2qmB.R.I.T.N.E.Y.: Well Curious Woman !!! On the topic of getting my ass fucked !! I fucking hate it !! It's dirty and if you don't train yourself before you let a guy fuck your ass it's extremely painful and bloody and embarrassing when poop comes out !!! One time when I was wearing my skintight spandex workout tights my boyfriend saw my ass crack through the fabric and he ended up putting me over the exercise ball and yanked the back of my spandex down and he fucked my ass !!! But I did orgasm and squirt like a garden hose when I was double penetrated at a party while I was drunk with a room full of guys !!! No !! I don't like a cock being rammed in my ass you always need lube !!! I really haven't any guys ramming their fingers in my mouth except for cock !!! On spitting in my mouth !! I'm like you on that one !! But guys have spit on me !! On choking !!! I do love it only if you love and trust your boyfriend/husband and if its done right you feel a lightheaded rush as you orgasm !!! I call it being throttled as my boyfriend is fucking me from behind as his hand is wrapped around my throat and pulling my head back as he's banging my pussy !!! So it's not for everyone !!! And I do love showing off my body wearing skintight spandex tights with white lace ankle socks and 5-inch black stilettos and walk out and tease all the guys !!! Especially the guys with their girlfriends or wives by their side !!! I even like teasing high schoolboys putting them into puberty !! And yes I always wear at work my crotchless pantyhose and tights and lace panties just in case I receive a quick in the heat of passion fuck in the stockroom or boardroom !!! I hope that I helped you out Curious Woman !!! Britney
Reply↴ • uid:1cr5cbcb27n4Bob in Tulsa.: I’ve only had a couple of women allow me into their ass. I will tell you it is a wonderfully intense tight feeling. It makes me want to come harder and stronger and faster. The two women who let me do it had to get used to anal sex before it became pleasurable to them. My current wife won’t even let me lick her ass. I don’t get splitting into the other person’s mouth either. Were choking the other person it’s just a dominant thing I think. Some women are naturally inclined to be dominated and some men love doing that so that’s a match. Some women love being tied up other women don’t like that loss of self-control I guess that’s why Baskin-Robbins has 32 flavors of ice cream. Not everybody’s gonna love either vanilla or chocolate. Some women love the power and control. They have over a man by how much pleasure they can give to them with their mouth, but my wife won’t even give me a blow job. Oh, she did before we got married. And people wonder why men cheat…
Reply↴ • uid:7pqjf5p2hmCurious Woman: I'm wondering why when I tried to send this originally, it wouldn't go an a note popped up that said my story wasn't long enough, that I had to have 2000 characters. Anybody got that notice before or know why I got it?
Reply↴ • uid:1a912bhjVery anonymous: It's about violence and control, that's it.
• uid:1epdj7p8a2yciwishitwasme14: Woman here. I love having a cock in my ass if the guy preps me slow and fucks me slow to medium. I do not like it rammed in me. I want to feel all of it going in and out of my ass, which does not happen at quick speed. I have climaxed from anal, but I was rubbing my clit to make it happen. Amazing!
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